Tips for dating in Thailand
Finding a partner will never be a cut and dry experience. There is always that uncertainty that things will not work out the way you expected. But you only need to follow a few simple steps when you’re on the hunt out there.
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1. Be confident.
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It’s okay to be a bit wary or shy – it’s normal. But don’t look like a loser who’s dependent on a woman – which is what “enterprising” women will look for in potential victims. So always show that you’re sure of yourself and can stand on your own. Chances are, the ones who go for you will be those who are looking for real fun, not someone who’’ try to manipulate you out of your well-earned money.
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2. Be interesting.
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Especially since you’re in a foreign country, try to be familiar with the local culture so that you won’t look like a total newcomer. Women love great conversation, and having at least a cursory knowledge about local things will show them that you can’t be misled or fooled easily.
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3. Be honest and mysterious at the same time.
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Be honest, but not too honest. Try to keep some things for yourself and make it stay that way. Some women will be quick to exploit over honesty and you may mark yourself as a potential target for all sorts of unsavory characters who seek to take advantage of you. Reveal just enough to give them an idea of how great you are, but not to the point that they know how much you earn in a month. Girls love mysterious men, and you will find yourself surrounded by women thirsty for tidbits about you.
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4. Don’t be a pervert.
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Well, not too much, anyway. Of course, in a go-go bar, this could fly, but if you are looking for a real relationship, this isn’t the way to go. Many men have made the mistake of letting women manipulate them through sex, and in the end are the ones who feel used and are left off with a load of problems.
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5. If you’re looking to go long-term, as for a background check.
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If you want to take things to the next level, then ask first for a discreet and quiet background check on the girl you’ve set your heart on. Having a background check done minimizes the chances of you being swindled out of your money – which has happened to so many men before. Also, having a background check done early is ideal since you aren’t too attached to the person yet, and you won’t be wasting time money and effort on a woman who’s just out to bleed you dry and leave you the moment you cancel her credit cards.
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If you’re looking for a one night stand, not all of these tips apply to you, but we still advice caution. However, if you’re looking for something long term, then it always pays to be careful from the start. And while it is true that true love can be found in this beautiful country, not all flowers here are without poison.
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February 23rd, 2009 at 16:10
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February 23rd, 2009 at 16:39
I agree with this. Having the right impression on the ladies from the very start makes you less of a target. If you come out strong and confident and sure of yourself, you are less to look like a wuss that women will target to steal money from. You will attract the right kind of ladies who really just want to have fun with you. And then if ever you want to live with her, then you must always have her checked out first because she might be wanting to steal from you.
February 23rd, 2009 at 17:27
Jan P.: Thanks for dropping by! We are thankful for all the people who come by and leave comments like yours. Thank you for appreciating all that we do here and for commending our service. It really is part of our service to provide guides and tips like these for everyone to benefit from.
Oscar: It always pays to be careful about the women you are with and always give a good impression so that you don’t come off as someone who can easily be fooled and manipulated. “Enterprising” women are quick to spot men like these and target them as potential victims.