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Sad, But True

Sad, But True

The image we conjure the image in our heads of two old people in love (think super, super old), we generally think of diamond commercials featuring wrinkled hands clasped in everlasting adoration. We think of happy couples who bicker affectionately after decades spent loving one another, fighting, making up and making babies. We do not think of divorce.

But for one couple in Italy, divorce court is exactly where they are headed. And the only difference between them and the other millions of couples who divorce around the world is their age. Antonio C, now 99, is demanding a divorce of his wife of 77 years after discovering that she (Rosa C, his 96-year-old wife) carried on a love affair back in the 1940′s.

This is what part of the article says:

“The Italian man, identified by lawyers in the case only as Antonio C, was rifling through an old chest of drawers when he made the discovery a few days before Christmas.

“Notwithstanding the time that had elapsed since the betrayal, he was so upset that he immediately confronted his wife of 77 years, named as Rosa C, and demanded a divorce.

“The couple are now preparing to split, despite the ties they forged over nearly eight decades – they have five children, a dozen grandchildren and one great-grand child.”


This only supports what we’ve been saying all along – betrayal is betrayal, regardless of how much time has passed and regardless of age. As long as you prolong suspicion and never see it fit to confirm it, you will never be really at peace, and in the end when the truth comes out – as it ALWAYS, ALWAYS will, you will still be as distraught (or maybe even more, even if you might deny it) as you would have been had you uncovered and discovered it earlier.

There are times when you just feel it in your gut that your partner is doing a double (or maybe even triple) number of you. You feel it, but can’t really put a finger to anything. This is normal, as you will be driven to think positively and try to see the best in your partner, thus finding it hard to look out for clues or indications that he or she might be cheating on you. Don’t worry, you are not alone when you look to optimism and turn a blind eye to your gut feel. But denial only leads to tragedy in the long run, so it is always best to identify the signs and maybe, just maybe, you can still save the relationship – if you want to.

Cheating partners are not a thing to be taken lightly. There are always more than just the emotional loss that goes along with it, and practically speaking, it is these other losses that will take their toll on you, especially in the long run. While we will be the first to say that there are very real possibilities for a real and genuine relationship while you are in Thailand, whether that relationship is professional or romantic in nature, or even both. We are simply reminding you to take a second look at any discrepancies and suspicions you have so as to avoid any long term damage in the future.

Read the rest of the article at: http://tgr.ph/vEQPAY

Sad, But True

One Response to “Sad, But True”

  1. HarryShiota Says:

    I’m not sure how i myself would react. It is definetly a stab in the back. Imagine all the questions he is asking himself. Just sad, the lady should have fessed up, the TRUTH always comes out. All I know is that I think people should be faithful to their spouses. It’s really hard to judge this one, as I am nowhere near that old but I think that is still devastating news, even to someone at an advanced age. As you said, betrayal is still betrayal. Like a stab in the heart – and you always feel a stab.

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